The Mythology of Leading and Following
The words we use shape our reality - dancers who create tango express more than the reductionist, causal relationship of action and consequence implied by the use of the words ‘leader’ and ‘follower.’ In the realm of theatre dance it would be usual to apply the term ‘duet’ to the creative work of two dancers; in the world of social dance it’s termed more prosaically as a ‘partnership’.
In the process of learning, the question “What is the lead for this ?” could equally be “What is the follow for that ?’ The answer to the former, a Zen - like ”You’ll know what the lead is when it’s taken from you”. We may also legitimately ask ”How do I extend an invitation to be led ? ” Is this a question you have ever heard ?
A dance floor is a place of Presence: when dancers are present to each other, dualistic thinking around leading and following recede and a tango emerges.